“LIVING AUTHENTICALLY: GOD’S APPROVAL OVER SOCIETY’S STANDARDS”

The title “In God’s and Parents’ Eyes: The Only Validation That Truly Matters” represents the concept that the most important validation we can seek is from those who genuinely care about us—God and our parents—rather than from social expectations. It underlines the necessity of living in accordance with our genuine selves, understanding that the acceptance of those who love us unconditionally is more valuable than society’s superficial norms.

On the other hand, “Living Authentically: God’s Approval Over Society’s Standards” emphasizes the importance of authenticity in a world obsessed with outer appearances and conventional success. This title emphasizes the idea that living in line with our ideals and seeking divine approval is considerably more gratifying and long-lasting than struggling to match society’s ephemeral expectations. Both emphasize inner tranquility and true fulfillment, which are obtained by putting what actually matters ahead of external judgment.

And I understand that not everyone believes in God or has the same level of love and respect for their parents. In certain instances, the intent is to come across something or someone who inspires you, provides you with strength, and motivation. It could be a loved one, the cosmic energy of the universe, something you treasure such as a plushie toy, a connection with deceased loved ones, nature, or even a specific type of light that lifts you. Whatever it is, it is crucial to identify the energy that will serve as your guiding force, because the power you connect with will ultimately shape your path and fuel your journey.

There are individuals who are often labeled as rebellious, arrogant, or egoistic simply because they choose to walk their own unique path—a path they’ve created for themselves. These individuals may not conform to societal expectations, timelines, or traditional milestones. Instead, they strive to live life on their own terms, valuing solitude and introspection to gain divine guidance, spark creative ideas, and delve into understanding their soul’s purpose.
This desire for solitude and introspection can sometimes be misunderstood. A shy or introverted nature might be perceived as arrogance. When society or those around you misunderstand your intentions, it can lead to stress. Hearing yourself being tagged as something you are not—especially by those who don’t know your journey—can be disheartening.
Worse still, there are moments when people, out of jealousy or sheer malice, take advantage of your absence or lack of communication. They might manipulate others, spread false narratives, or find entertainment in bringing you down. Discovering such acts, whether accidentally or intentionally, can leave you feeling hurt or even outraged. At times, you may try to clarify your position, and at others, you may simply choose to let it go.

With time and maturity, however, you come to realize that you cannot control others’ actions or opinions. What you can control is your focus—on your work, your goals, your strengths, and the daily effort you put into becoming a better version of yourself. Maintaining serenity becomes your priority, as does valuing the hard work and sacrifices that have brought you this far.

In the end, it’s your dedication, your inner peace, and your relentless pursuit of growth that matter. Those who truly matter—your parents, your loved ones, and your higher self—will never let your efforts go in vain. They serve as a reminder that your journey, no matter how challenging, will not go unacknowledged or unrewarded where it truly matters. Let others say what they will; your energy is best spent building a life that reflects your truth.

Although we are all unique individuals on this Earth, there are some among us whose personalities stand out even more due to certain factors—perhaps even their planetary placements (don’t worry, I won’t dive into astrology or cosmic concepts here).

These individuals often carry a complexity that can be difficult for others to understand. When society encounters someone they can’t easily figure out or “solve,” they often form their own perceptions. Rather than seeking to truly understand, people may label or judge based on their limited perspective. And when they fail to enter your orbit or connect with your energy, it can leave them feeling restless or even irritated.

So what if you didn’t perform as well on examinations as your relatives’ children? You might not be the best in one area, but you could be excelling in something other, which will become apparent over time. It may not be obvious at first, but with experience, you will recognize your distinct strengths. Everyone has their own path and originality; it’s just a matter of finding it. Sometimes we discover our potential after a period of struggle, affected by prior karma or specific planetary situations.

The problems and obstacles we endure are not in vain; they are tests that help us develop resilience. These difficult times may appear overpowering, but they eventually awaken us to our inner strength. When we look back, we realize that those hardships were designed to shape us, to make us strong enough to endure and prosper on the trip ahead. These are the lessons that will enable us to shine even brighter in the future.

So what if you don’t pursue materialism, chasing money, reputation, and popularity like your neighbor’s son or daughter? Life isn’t a race to tick society’s boxes. Choosing to pursue your passion and embrace your creative side may not result in immediate financial gain, but it will provide you with something far more valuable—peace, joy, and a feeling of purpose. It allows you to wake up each day feeling fulfilled, knowing you’re doing something that truly resonates with your soul.

That being said, what if you work from home instead of a regular 9 to 5 job? The idea of leaving the house to work is often associated with worth in society, as if earning money is only significant when it is connected to the traditional outdoor activity. However, there are people in society who work unethically and adhere to rigid schedules in order to satisfy social standards; where is the condemnation for that? Society frequently makes judgments based on conventional standards, failing to recognize that true value is determined by the quality of the work and its influence rather than by its location or format.

Who’s to say that your hard work and perseverance won’t pay out in the end? Passion combined with hard work has the capacity to generate marvels. Over time, your path may bring you not only financial prosperity, but also blessings, respect, and admiration from others around you. True success is defined not by your bank account balance or how society wants you to live, but by the happiness, fulfillment, and meaning you generate along the road. Stay true to yourself, trust your path, and believe that your unique journey will develop wonderfully in its own time.

So what if you don’t marry within the societally prescribed “perfect age bracket”? So, what if you decide to wait rather than settle for less? There is no guilt in waiting until you discover someone who truly shares your values, morals, and emotional intelligence—a mate who is on your wavelength. Marriage is not something you swipe up for, like ordering a spicy, hot dish that is perfectly cooked. It is a lifelong commitment, not a passing whim. You’re looking for depth, stability, and a long-term relationship, not just a fling or a “time pass.”

Yes, I may seem harsh, but let’s be honest—this is what’s going on around us. Nowadays, people rush into relationships without genuinely knowing or connecting, and they separate quicker than oats cook—Quaker, to be precise! 😂 I mean, they are separated before they ever get close. Relationships require more thinking, attention, and patience than a quick match and even quicker goodbye.

Sometimes life unfolds in unexpected ways. While some people spend thousands of money looking for a suitable match, others meet their ideal mate quickly and easily. Then there are those who bear the social responsibility of explaining their son’s or daughter’s delayed marriage. Initially, they may provide clarifications to quell the constant questioning, but they gradually tire. They retire into the tranquility of their own houses, preferring peace to the societal circus—a type of escapism that keeps them sane.

Ironically, individuals who condemn and question frequently begin to understand only after experiencing similar difficulties with their own children’s weddings. This emphasizes a truth that many people overlook: life functions on divine timing, especially for major events such as birth, marriage, and death.

Not everyone’s journey is the same, and society must accept that marriage is not the zenith of life. If such were the case, why are so many people divorcing, remarrying, or looking for new companions as if these relationships were annual festivals? Everyone they meet becomes their “soulmate,” yet soon after, legal disputes arise over these very connections. A genuine connection is not fleeting like a passing trend.

Some people need years to move on from a true love. They endure excruciating discomfort while gradually repairing themselves piece by piece. Individuals who are emotionally resilient take their time reconnecting, but they emerge wiser and more mature, making better decisions. However, being single is not a show of weakness; rather, it is a bold choice. However, having someone to share the trip with, someone to hold your hand through emotional turmoil, can make life seem less intimidating.

Even when decisions are made wisely, things might go wrong. Sometimes the lessons we need to learn are linked to karmic links. However, society frequently mocks failed attempts, saying things like, “You chose your partner so carefully, and yet things didn’t work out.” Such remarks disregard the complexities of human relationships as well as the fact that we all live on the same planet, each with our own set of problems. Rather than criticizing or belittling, society should show empathy and understanding. Life is unpredictable, and no one is exempt from its challenges.

This is a reminder that your unique essence is not for everyone to comprehend—and that’s perfectly okay.

And believe me, it’s entirely appropriate to embrace and express your distinct individuality. The world values diversity, and your uniqueness is a gift that brings richness and color to life. However, with this uniqueness comes responsibility: ensure that your activities are consistent with beliefs that respect others and create harmony. Being honest to yourself is powerful, but it should never result in bringing harm to others, either purposefully or unintentionally.

Similarly, remaining real does not imply inciting conflict or division within society or among individuals. It’s about striking a balance where you may follow your own path while also respecting the collective peace around you.

Most importantly, being devoted to yourself shouldn’t ever compromise your dignity. Your uniqueness is your strength, and embracing it with grace and self-esteem will help you to shine even brighter. So, accept the real you without apology, as long as your journey serves both you and the world around you.